expectations

premeditated resentments

i can expect things from myself, but not from others. for most part that’s where lot of interpersonal issues comes from. now i think of it and regret sometime when pushing someone to do something. i can merely suggest once if i feel that’s right thing to do, but adults are capable of making their own decisions and they should be able to live with it and get fruits of it or bear consequences. i meddling that process in fact push things to other side, where i kind of become the enemy and they don’t do that as they find themselves conflicted with ego battle. not applicable in professional settings, it’s mostly observation on personal setup. also, be mindful of certain expectations are purely because of societal norms and your own upbringing, you have to find which category it falls into, and is it big deal if it’s not followed or ignored and what can be the consequences of it.